Does Size Matter?
There have been so many more interesting, more important, more thoughtful questions asked, but this one seems to be the big one (pun intended)! So many guys ask me - on cam I get asked about size at least 20 times a day. Sometimes it is asked outright, sometimes it is hinted at and danced around - do you prefer big dicks? Whats the smallest dick you've fucked? Whats the biggest? Sometimes things get very anatomical - how many inches? How many in diameter? If it's thick, does it have to be long (and vice versa)? Is six inches ok? Is 5? What about 8? As though there is an exact figure that will guarantee orgasms at twenty paces...
So why is it that size matters so much to the people doing the asking? Guys with small dicks trying to convince themselves that it doesn't, guys with big dicks trying to guarantee their studliness, guys with little dicks who want to have them made fun of, guys with big dicks trying to prove they are getting women off with skill and not just hardware...Size is, apparently, huge.
So here is the answer - but you aren't going to like it. Maybe you would if the post was just a little bigger...
Size does matter. It also doesn't.
The thing is, I've had a lot of sex, with a lot of different dicks. I've had dicks so small they were like a bad punchline, and dicks so big that they felt just like an actual punch to the ladybits. And the size was never the determining factor in how much my mind was blown. Not once.
I've had phenomenal sex with guys who are smaller than average - eyes rolling back and head popping off sex (makes me kinda wet just thinking about it). I've had some of the most godwaful, boring, and even painful sex with guys who were hung like the proverbial horse. What made the difference was a whole lot of things - foreplay, level of attraction, passion, drunkenness...
Yet I'm still a size queen. I love a nice, big, cock. Who doesn't? If you still want facts and figures, ideally you are looking at 8-9", proportionately thick, straight, and generally pretty. For the record, this is the only part of a man's body where tattoos do NOT turn me on. And yes, I've seen those.
But I also love a guy who knows what he is doing, who cares about whether or not I am having fun. I want guys that feel connected when we fuck - eye contact, non-sexual touching, kissing, hair pulling...reacting to what I am doing. You could have the world's prettiest cock, but if you are just masturbating into me, the best thing about sex with you will be the cigarette.
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